I have been married for a few years and my husband and I have sexual intercourse about twice a week. My husband does plenty of foreplay, and I enjoy that part and usually feel satisfied. However, when I become highly aroused and we start intercourse, he often ejaculates within a minute. After that, I am left sexually unsatisfied.
Sometimes we try to have intercourse again, but by then my mood and desire have already gone down. My husband asks me whether I was satisfied. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, so I often say “yes” even when I am not actually satisfied. Then he falls asleep, but I remain awake feeling incomplete and frustrated.
I feel that the two main problems are that he ejaculates too quickly and that his penis is small. I don’t want to hurt him, but I also want to be happy in my sexual life. I am worried that if this continues, my entire married life will remain like this. What should we do? Can Ayurvedic treatment help?